Managing dietary restrictions can be all consuming and overwhelming, especially if you’re new to food allergies. With that in mind, today we’re going to look at some delicious allergy free dinner recipes and meal ideas. Before we jump in though, I want to stress: anyone can be allergic to anything, or manage a food intolerance to anything. So the term “allergy free” may be a bit misleading.
When someone says allergy free, they’re usually referring to common allergens, also known as top or major allergens. Here in the US, we have what’s called the top 9 allergens. In Europe, they have the top 14 allergens. Each country or governing body will have their own set of major allergens.
The US top allergens are: wheat, milk, egg, soy, peanut, tree nut (including coconut as per the FDA), fish, shellfish, and sesame. These 9 ingredients cause the most reported allergic reactions and ER visits.
Going Back to the Basics
Now that we have that out of the way, let’s talk logistics. When you’re preparing allergy friendly dinners, especially if you’re busy (think holiday season) or new to the free-from life, think BASIC. Now is not the time to try a million fancy or complicated new recipes.
Instead, think about the main content/component of your meal. Is it a protein? Great. Now let’s build around that. What’s a simple starch you can serve? If you’re gluten free, dairy free, and many other frees, think about roasted potatoes, steamed rice, or a gluten-free pasta (there are loads of options to choose from these days).
Now we have a main and a starch. What else can we add to this meal? Anything. Fresh fruit is always my go-to since there’s no prep involved, just a little washing. This ultra basic formula can get you through the hardest of days. From there, start to explore different recipes your family will enjoy (I’ve linked to many later in this article).
for those who are feeling overwhelmed (specially if you’re newly diagnosed), use this formula for several months. During that time, learn more about your diagnosis, adjust to reading labels, new precautions you may need to take, and so on. Once you have a handle on everything else, then tackle adding new recipes.
Preventing an Allergic Reaction in Your Home
In case you’re reading this and you’re a mixed allergy household (where different people have different allergies), it’s important that you think about cross-contact. This happens when an allergen comes into contact with the food or prep/tools used for someone who is allergic to that item. A great example is a cutting board.
Let’s say you have a child who is allergic to strawberries. If you use the board to cut strawberries, then use it to slice banana (that will be served to the child with the strawberry allergy), there’s cross-contact between the strawberry and banana. This creates a risk of an allergic reaction due to trace amounts of strawberry being on the banana.
If you’d like to read more about this topic, and learn how you can prevent cross-contact in your home, read this article.
Cooking an Allergy Free Meal When You’re Managing a Mixed Allergy Household
If you’re living in a mixed allergy household, and cooking for everyone’s individual needs, that can get very exhausting very quickly. What you really need are meal ideas for the entire family, what I like to call Cooking for the Greatest Common Denominator (GCD). Yes, our middle school math lessons have finally come to help us.
Let’s say you have one child with a dairy allergy in the home, and another child has a wheat allergy. On top of that, your spouse has a different allergy, let’s say an egg allergy. Rather than cook three recipes, I want to encourage you to find delicious recipes that meet all of the needs in one go.
To aid in this, I’ve built the Advanced Recipe Search. You can use more than 100 filters (it covers food allergies, special diets, food intolerance, and much more) to find the perfect solution for your family. Give it a spin and get amazing recipe ideas.
An example of a solid solution: seasoned ground turkey + mashed potatoes + oven roasted vegetables. Most likely, you can season your ground turkey (or other ground meats such as ground beef) in a way that everyone can enjoy together. Mashed potatoes are super versatile, and you can easily substitute dairy free butter in place of cow’s milk butter to make them creamy and delicious. In fact, I’ve even shared a corn free mashed potatoes recipe that’s butter free. Lastly, your veg. Grab veggies from the freezer that everyone likes and pop them in the oven. It doesn’t have to be overly complicated to put together a free-from meal for the entire family in one go. You just need to think about the greatest common denominator as you plan.
If you need help with meal planning, RAISE also offers pre-made meal plans, and a meal planning tool that you can use on the website. You’re even able to print out shopping lists based on the recipes in your plan. This can be especially helpful if you’re a new mom or new to managing food allergies.
Related Helpful Articles
Here are some helpful articles that will help you stock your free-from kitchen and keep your family fueled. If you need more support, 1-on-1 consultation and bespoke recipe development services are available.
- Dairy Free Snacks (the snacks in this article are gluten free and allergy friendly, and I also share brands to purchase)
- Seed Allergy Information (being new to a seed allergy is tough because often times people aren’t sure where to start)
- Meals to Make with Ground Turkey and Ground Beef (lots of easy and delicious allergy friendly meal ideas, including some my kids’ all time favorites)
- Pasta Recipes & Ideas (full of allergy friendly recipes that are focused on gluten free pasta)
- Free-From Freezer Meals to Make (this article can help you create a freezer stock full of allergy friendly meals)
- Chicken Lunch & Dinner Recipes Free From Gluten & Allergy Friendly
Allergy-Friendly Recipes I Think You’ll Love
Each of these delicious recipes is gluten free and top 9 allergy free. Some are top 14 allergy free as well.
- Easy Peach & Chicken BBQ Pressure Cooker Stew
- Garlic & Mushroom Smash Burgers
- Amazing Gluten Free & Dairy Free Buttermilk Fried Chicken Recipe
- Gluten Free, Soy & Sesame Free Pork Stir Free (that’s right, no soy sauce!)
Kid Friendly Top 9 Allergen Free Dinner Recipes
When serving kids, I like to think about colour, texture, and simpler flavours. These recipes are all gluten free and top 9 allergy free. Some are top 14 allergy free as well.
- Allium Free Curried Apples & Rice Recipe (Vegan, GF, Top 9 Free)
- Easy Butter Chicken with Shallots and Grapes (look at that colour!!)
- Purple Cabbage & Chicken Ramen Recipe
- Kid Friendly Chicken & Apple Tacos (Gluten Free, Top 14 Allergy Free)
Healthy Dinner Recipes for the Whole Family
If you’re looking for healthy recipes to serve your family, here are some of my top picks. I will remind you however, the term healthy is different to everyone.
- Nutrient Dense Italian Ragu
- Dairy Free Creamy Avocado Pasta
- Creamy Dairy Free Lamb Pasta Recipe
- Cranberry & Chicken Salad
Easy Recipes & Meal Ideas That are Top 9 Allergy Free
If you’re looking for EASY, be sure to look at pressure cooker recipes and sheet pan recipes. Many are naturally allergy friendly, or easy to adapt. These hands-off cooking methods can make your day feel a lot less stressful.
- Gluten Free Tomato & Bacon Pasta
- Pressure Cooker Chicken & Cabbage Soup
- Oven Roasted Chicken and Vegetables
- Pan Fried Chicken + Mushroom Sauce Recipe
Top 14 Allergen-Free Recipes
Like it says on the tin, these recipes are top 14 free. I also think you’ll enjoy how easy they are to make.
- Legume Free Chili Recipe
- Easy Chicken & Pepper Meatballs
- Coconut Free Lemongrass Chicken
- Russian Inspired Dried Mushroom Soup Recipe
Meatless Recipes I Think You’ll Enjoy
These vegan recipes I’m sharing are also gluten free and top 9 allergy free. Some are top 14 free as well.
- Creamy Eggplant & Rice (Vegan, GF, Top 9 Free)
- Gluten & Dairy Free Broccoli Mac n Cheese
- Roasted Vegetable Fried Rice
- Vegan 3 Bean Chili Recipe
- Chickpea Based Mock Tuna Salad Recipe
- Vegan Pulled Porque (Faux Pulled Pork)
Breakfast For Dinner
Here are several dishes that are normally served for breakfast. However, like I always like to say, you can serve anything at anytime and it’s a meal. Don’t fall into the trap of “traditional meals only”. Instead, focus on rounded and balanced meals that are safe and delicious.
- Easy Fluffy Pancakes (this recipe is part of the free recipe collection on RAISE for you to enjoy)
- Spinach Chocolate Chip Muffins (serve this with protein and (frozen) oven roasted vegetables)
- Pumpkin Power Balls (this can also be a great snack for lunches)
- Breakfast Sausage Salad (kind of a mix of breakfast and dinner)
Allergy-Friendly Recipes for Dessert (Yanno, Because it Comes After Dinner)
All of these recipes are gluten free and top 9 allergy free. Some are also top 14 allergen-free recipes as well.
- Amazing Chocolate Chip Cookies (this was a top seller at the award winning GF + top 9 free bakery I used to own and operate)
- Corn Free + Top 9 Free Vanilla Ice Cream (this pairs so well with these fudgy brownies)
- Vanilla Sheet Pan Cake Recipe (this cake is so easy to make and is great to share with friends and family without dietary restrictions)
- Amazing Apple & White Chocolate Sheet Pan Cake Recipe (the tasters were blown away by this one, and yes, there are top 9 allergy free white chocolate chip options)
Gluten Free & Allergy Friendly Cookbooks to Help You on Your Journey
Here are just four of my cookbooks to help you on your free-from journey. So many people have shared with me that they’re incredibly helpful and the recipes are easy to follow.
- 25 Gluten Free & Top 9 Allergy Free Muffins
- 50 Fast & Easy Allergy-Friendly Recipes for Dinner
- Truly Corn Free Cookbook (Gluten Free and Allergy Friendly)
- Free-From Toddler Cookbook (all recipes are gluten free and top 9 allergy free)
Wheat, Gluten, Milk, and Dairy Substitute Information
If you’re reading this, you may want to take a recipe and adapt it for your current needs. I’ve put together a few articles full of information on how you can choose the best substitute in cooking and baking where specific allergens are concerned.
- Milk & Dairy Substitutes and How to Use Them
- Dairy Free & Milk Free Swaps
- Wheat Free & Gluten Free Substitutes
- Gluten Free & Wheat Free Swaps
- Cashew Substitute Information
- How to Make Creamy Foods Without Milk & Dairy
Answering Your Allergy Friendly Dinner Questions
Do you have any tips for serving picky/selective eaters?
I’ll be honest with you: having a child who already has limited options refuse their safe food can be soul crushing. I’ve been where you are and here’s what I can tell you from the other side: it does get easier. However, getting to easier requires patience, consistency, and thick skin at times.
If you feel that your child’s picky eating is outside the scope of normal picky/selective eating, the Better Bites course from Kids Eat in Color may be helpful. It focuses on techniques, and it doesn’t matter how many safe foods your child has. The program works with what you’ve got.
For those of you who are managing normal/expected picky eating in children, here are a couple of tips. First, serve food in clear bowls. You know we talk about “food exposures” for kids? Well, it doesn’t count as an exposure if your child can’t see the food. Get down on their eye-level at your dining table. What can your child typically see? Make sure they’re able to see the food, and anything else you’d like them to be aware of.
Next tip: serve food family style. This allows your family to create individual bowls/plates that they’re more likely to eat. Here are a couple of examples of what a spread could look like.
- Black Bean Burgers + Potato Salad + Sour Cream + Fresh Fruit + Tortillas
- Gluten-Free Pasta + Chicken Cutlet (or Chicken tenders) + Red Sauce/White Sauce + Salad Greens
- Sweet Potatoes + Seasoned Ground Beef + Fresh Fruit + Salsa (or another sauce)
With each of these examples, each item is its own serving bowl. Rather than serve plates of pre-made foods, allow everyone to serve themselves. Novelty tongs can be especially helpful for picky/selective eaters.
If your child consistently eats only starches, don’t raise the red flags just yet, as this is pretty typical. Kids NEED carbs and quick energy, which is why many gravitate towards carbs. If you’re concerned about protein and fat content, do the math. Most parents are shocked to learn how small a protein portion needs to be for their child to meet the daily minimum.
Hopefully this gives you a little peace of mind. If you’d like to dive further into this topic, check out the baby, toddler, and kid feeding courses by Feeding Littles. I’ve heard nothing but good things from parents who have enrolled.
Do you have recipes for creamy soups that are also wheat free and dairy free?
Why yes, yes I do. I’ll link to them, but here are a few tips for you, if you’d like to make your own custom creamy soups at home.
Some ingredients lend themselves really well to being creamy when blended (steamed carrots, butternut squash are two examples). Beets on the other hand don’t create a creamy mouthfeel when blended alone.
When making creamy soups that are dairy free and wheat free, you can use a wheat free/gluten free flour along with a dairy free milk to create a roux (thickener). This will allow you to make something super creamy that’s absolutely safe for you.
Many dairy free cheeses, as well as cashews, can make an excellent base for a creamy dairy free soup. This article shares more details with you. Now, here are some recipes for you to enjoy.
- Vegan Cream of Mushroom Soup Recipe
- Cauliflower & Potato Soup Recipe (Vegan, Gluten Free, Top 9 Free)
- Creamy Dairy Free White Bean Pumpkin Soup Recipe
- Leek & Potato Soup Recipe (Vegan, Gluten Free, Top 9 Free)
- Easy Parsnip & Carrot Soup Recipe (Vegan, Gluten Free, Top 9 Free)
- Wheat & Dairy Free Cauliflower and Zucchini Soup Recipe
What’s a great main dish to serve at a dinner party that’s allergy friendly?
I’ve gotten this question often times when someone is hosting a gathering and at least one guest has a food allergy. Here are a few options that are very allergy friendly:
- Steamed Rice + Steamed Veg + Seasoned Chicken (not breaded, just seasoned)
- Taco Seasoned Ground Beef + Corn Tortillas + Salsa
- Grilled Burger Patties
The neat thing about the taco beef and burger patties is that you can create a toppings bar. This allows you to have a range of items for guests to choose from. If you’ll be using packaged items (such as burger buns) keep the food labels visible so guests with food allergies can avoid the item if needed. Additionally, talk to your guests before the party. Find out what precautions you should take.
An easy way to help guests feel comfortable is to have a separate serving area (with separate serving tools) for the allergy friendly items.
Are there any good Instagram accounts to follow for allergy friendly recipes?
Yes, there are quite a few. You can follow my account, @TheAllergyChef where I share inspiration, meals, and more. My friend Meg from Allergy Awesomeness has a great Instagram account, and she shares free recipes on her website. She also talks a lot about the school side of things which can be helpful.
Living Freely Gluten Free (Jennifer) is another great account to follow. Whilst she’s big on gluten free, she manages a mixed allergy household and can share some great insight.
Also be sure to follow the Spokin account on Instagram. They share products and guides. Whilst they don’t share loads of allergen-free recipes on their account, their app has some options. Honestly though, the helpful info they share on products can be super helpful.
Do you know where I can find good top 14 allergen-free recipes?
RAISE has a whole section of top 14 allergen-free recipes. Outside of that, I’d suggest looking for UK and EU food allergy recipe websites and bloggers. Here in the US, we have the top 9, so it’s not as common to find here.
Can I use coconut milk in cooking and baking?
Maybe. In terms of function, yes, coconut milk will be a 1:1 substitute in cooking and baking for both cow’s milk and other plant-based dairy free milks. It’s important to note that full fat coconut milk from the can is not the same thing as the boxed variety that’s more watery. Unless a recipe calls for the full fat variety, you’ll want to use the more watery type of coconut milk in your recipes.
Now, to the flavor. Coconut milk is very distinct, and not everyone enjoys the taste. If the recipe calls for a small amount, it’s usually not a big deal. If you’re making a creamy soup or white cream sauce, it will be a big deal, so know your audience.
When you’re making savory recipes, be sure to use an unsweetened plain coconut milk so you don’t throw off the balance of the recipe.
Do you have baking tips for gluten free and top 9 allergy free?
Why yes I do! I have loads of baking tips to share with you, all free from gluten, eggs, nuts, and other major allergens. Rather than list all the tips here, I’ll share some article and resource links.
- Free-From Baking Mini eCourse (free to take, done via email)
- Gluten Free Flours: Where to Start
- Egg Free & Gluten Free Baking Tips
- Free-From Baking Introduction eCourse (full paid eCourse, and RAISE Members get the course for free)
I’ll also suggest that you check out the Advanced Recipe Search. You can plugin your individual needs, then choose dessert as the meal type to get awesome recipes tailored to meet the needs of your household.
Do you know of a seed free, top 9 allergy free, dairy free butter option?
No, there isn’t a commercial option that would meet all of your needs. As I’m sure you’ve learned on your free-from journey, seeds are the biggest hurdle in your needs.
I’m following the FDA guideline and including coconut in that statement though. The FDA lumps coconut in with tree nuts for the sake of labeling laws. You *may* be able to find a coconut based option, but I don’t know of any at the moment.
Your best option is tallow. You can purchase beef tallow or bison tallow. Whilst they’re expensive, they can be used in place of butter in both cooking and baking. It takes some getting used to, and the flavor is present in cookies, but it works.
I personally use this bison tallow and make some dang good cookies with them. Also, be sure to check out the Advanced Recipe Search on RAISE. One of the options is seed free (there are over 125 filter options), in case you need more dinner recipes free from seeds and the top 9.
I hope this article helps you as you feed your family well. Anddddd, if after all this talk about dinner you’re ready for something sweet, check out the top 9 allergy free desserts on RAISE.